Building a life you LOVE!

If you don’t love your life, it’s never too late to start again.

Sometimes it’s easy to find ourselves in a bit of a “rut routine” the rut becomes the routine and we begin to accept it, allowing it, and almost… well, really, choosing it. If you are finding yourself there, it’s never too late to BEGIN again.

STEP ONE
It starts with defining what you’d LOVE your life to look like. Write it down, dream big! We’ve only got one life here on earth so we may as well GO FOR IT.

Okay, you’ve got the beautiful life on paper? Great.

STEP TWO
Now, I want you to write out a separate list for each thing that you want in your life. This list is going to be actions or activities that logically would help you achieve or see those things come to fruition.

STEP THREE

Now I want you to write out everything you usually do in a week currently. Great, done? Now, I want you to cross our everything that DOESN’T help you get what you want, things that are out of line or detracting from what you actually want. Those have to go. (Now if it’s something like laundry, okay we all need to do that, those are actually day to day things that WILL lead to the life we love because I think a life we love all includes wearing CLEAN CLOTHES) So be logical here!

STEP FOUR
Now, we’re going to work on your calendar. Your NEW calendar. Because your everyday life becomes your life. Let’s make sure we start to LOVE our day to day plans. Let’s start pencilling into a week’s routine the activities that we wrote down that will help us achieve the life we want.

NOW…

This is where we have to be committed. It’s up to us to actually push through the tough days and actually DO THIS THING! It’s not always going to be easy, but it’s about longevity and consistency and you’ll start to see the fruits of that life you want!

Maybe you wrote down you want better friendships— it’s going to take more than 5-6 awkward hang outs to all of a sudden have a best friend.

Maybe you wrote down you want to be fit? Three months to really see results, and that’s CONSISTENT working out.

So what I’m saying is give it your all and give it time!

“The way you choose to fill everyday and exert your energy will determine your life’s entire direction. Where you end up next year or in 10 years is determined by the choices you make now! “

— ASH

XOXO