The Life of Freedom

This morning I read Galatians 5 in Eugene Peterson's paraphrase. And it's incredibly impacting. Many in the North American culture have been conditioned to believe that when we are living for ourselves, acquiring things for ourselves, achieving things for ourselves, building this grandeur life for ourselves, we are free. But what if it's that selfish, self-centred striving type of living that actually ends up enslaving us and ultimately takes away the true freedom we are intended to live in. I'm just going to let Eugene's paraphrase speak for itself... Hope you find it inspiring in some way. 

It is absolutely clear that God has called you to a free life. Just make sure that you don’t use this freedom as an excuse to do whatever you want to do and destroy your freedom. Rather, use your freedom to serve one another in love; that’s how freedom grows. For everything we know about God’s Word is summed up in a single sentence: Love others as you love yourself. That’s an act of true freedom. If you bite and ravage each other, watch out—in no time at all you will be annihilating each other, and where will your precious freedom be then?

My counsel is this: Live freely, animated and motivated by God’s Spirit. Then you won’t feed the compulsions of selfishness. For there is a root of sinful self-interest in us that is at odds with a free spirit, just as the free spirit is incompatible with selfishness. These two ways of life are antithetical, so that you cannot live at times one way and at times another way according to how you feel on any given day. Why don’t you choose to be led by the Spirit and so escape the erratic compulsions of a law-dominated existence?

It is obvious what kind of life develops out of trying to get your own way all the time: repetitive, loveless, cheap sex; a stinking accumulation of mental and emotional garbage; frenzied and joyless grabs for happiness; trinket gods; magic-show religion; paranoid loneliness; cutthroat competition; all-consuming-yet-never-satisfied wants; a brutal temper; an impotence to love or be loved; divided homes and divided lives; small-minded and lopsided pursuits; the vicious habit of depersonalizing everyone into a rival; uncontrolled and uncontrollable addictions; ugly parodies of community. I could go on.

But what happens when we live God’s way? He brings gifts into our lives, much the same way that fruit appears in an orchard—things like affection for others, exuberance about life, serenity. We develop a willingness to stick with things, a sense of compassion in the heart, and a conviction that a basic holiness permeates things and people. We find ourselves involved in loyal commitments, not needing to force our way in life, able to marshal and direct our energies wisely.

Since this is the kind of life we have chosen, the life of the Spirit, let us make sure that we do not just hold it as an idea in our heads or a sentiment in our hearts, but work out its implications in every detail of our lives. That means we will not compare ourselves with each other as if one of us were better and another worse. We have far more interesting things to do with our lives. Each of us is an original.


I think that's enough to chew on for the day... 

Ash 

DIP AGAIN

If you know anything about fishing, you know that it is an activity that requires patience. And quite often you don't catch a fish on the first dip of your line. 9/10 times that my dad goes fishing, he comes back catching nothing. Yet, for 40+ years, he has continued the activity and has enjoyed the process, even the times that he comes home without a fish. 

"So he went down and dipped himself in the Jordan seven times, as the man of God had told him, and his flesh was restored and became clean like that of a young boy." -- 2 Kings 5:14

The "he" in this passage from the Bible refers to a man named Naaman who had leprosy. He was told that if he dipped into the Jordan 7 times, that he would be healed. 

I can imagine that on the 1st time, 2nd time, 3rd time and so on, Naaman was probably feeling a little dejected that his skin still was infested with the terrible disease. But he didn't stop dipping. He obeyed despite perhaps not seeing the immediate healing or results that he wanted. 

Sometimes we stop short, on dip 3 or 4. We give up just short of our breakthrough on the "7th dip"...

Dip again. And don't grow weary in your obedience to God. He has amazing plans for your life. Dip again. Maybe for you it will be with 7th dip, or maybe it's the 100th dip. But I am sure of this-- God is faithful, He is good, He has good plans for you, and His timing is perfect. 

"So let's not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don't give up." - Galatians 6:9

LUV

John 3:16 is one verse in the bible that is packed with so much truth and insight on who God is.  

 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."

Reading this passage this week has made me reflect on how God is generous with his love. In fact he gives of his love freely to the entire world without requiring or expecting anything in return.  

God's love is faithful, constant, pursuing, persistent, strong, no matter how many times we push him away, turn our backs, put other things and people before Him, no matter how horrible we sometimes are, His love remains the same. He is still there with us arms open wide for embrace.  

Thats such amazing news for us.  

I had another thought too... if we are to emulate God's love, we need to evaluate how we present our relationships and love to those around us.  

Are your relationships with others requiring things others in order to earn your love, time and investment? Or are you giving of your relationship with others as a free gift of love, no strings attached? We should be striving for the second.  

Today, look to love and be in relationship with those around you despite their actions. It's that kind of love that will change this world, change lives for the better.  

LUV ya ;) 

ash  

 

Prioritize

Yesterday was a great day. Yeah I know it was a Monday. I once saw a meme that said, "MONDAY...GO STEP ON A LEGO." Which I did think was funny, but at the same time I thought was sad. Why would we dread the gift of another day of life? No matter what we are facing, each day we are given is a gift.  

Anyhow that was a complete side note. Haha. Let's get back to it. Yesterday was a great day.  

We had a public speaking and life coach come into our office and run a training day with our leadership team. I learned so much! One thing she advised me on was this-- to figure out if there is one thing I could do "job wise" (just one) and it could be anything, what would it be? 

You see, I'm a bit of a vivacious person who loves many things and I often, "want it all" ... but if there's one thing I really want to do and be the best at, it will require focus and intentionality. It will require me to let go of other things, in order to have the time and energy to prioritize the one thing.  

And if "everything" is your priority, nothing is truly your priority.

So then I'm at church last night, and our pastor says this... "what you prioritize will become your reality."  

So good right?  

What I invest in today will be my reality tomorrow. If I'm prioritizing let's say, physical fitness, I'll be fit. If I don't. I won't. simple.  

If I want my reality to be intentional relationships with depth-- what am I doing today to prioritize that so it actually becomes my reality? 

Today, write down three things you want most in your day to day reality. Do they match your current priorities? Is that where you're investing your time? Perhaps you're aligned, or perhaps you need to make a shift.  

What you prioritize will become your reality.  

Ash  

WISDOM

My mom's favorite thing to write on any card for her kids is this: 

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding, but in all your ways acknowledge Him and he will make your path straight. - Proverbs 3:5-6

So this morning I was reading Proverbs 3. And it's interesting, the writer says to trust the Lord in verse 5-6 but then continues giving us insight on what that actually looks like for 30 more verses! 

Sometimes we think trusting God means doing nothing. But trust is very action oriented and intentional.

Your actions will show who you trust-- whether it's yourself, this world, or God.

Here are a few "actions" I picked up on throughout this chapter that illustrate what it might look like to trust God. 

- Focus on Love and Loyalty
- Listen for God's voice in everything you do
- Run from evil
- Honor God with everything you own
- Accept correction
- Hold tightly to wisdom and act accordingly
- Value clear thinking and common sense
- Put other's before yourself
- Don't live in fear
- Live in the present moment
- Don't walk around bitter

Trusting God also means making good choices. Last night I was at a friends wedding and it was beautiful. As people gave beautiful speeches, there was definitely one common theme throughout-- wisdom. This couple had operated with such wisdom and patience throughout their relationship making amazing choices. Their amazing choices led them to that very beautiful wedding day with so many friends and family raving in support. 

Good choices may not always be the most popular ones, but they'll always land you where you're supposed to be before wrong choices will. They'll be a blessing and a conduit for a full life, the best life that you were intended for. 

I love the last verse in Proverbs 3...

Wise living gets rewarded with honor; stupid living gets the booby prize.

Here's proverbs 3 to read for yourself. This is Eugene Peterson's message paraphrase. See what you take from it.

This week, let's live wisely.

Proverbs 3//

3 1-2 Good friend, don’t forget all I’ve taught you;
    take to heart my commands.
They’ll help you live a long, long time,
    a long life lived full and well.

3-4 Don’t lose your grip on Love and Loyalty.
    Tie them around your neck; carve their initials on your heart.
Earn a reputation for living well
    in God’s eyes and the eyes of the people.

5-12 Trust God from the bottom of your heart;
    don’t try to figure out everything on your own.
Listen for God’s voice in everything you do, everywhere you go;
    he’s the one who will keep you on track.
Don’t assume that you know it all.
    Run to God! Run from evil!
Your body will glow with health,
    your very bones will vibrate with life!
Honor God with everything you own;
    give him the first and the best.
Your barns will burst,
    your wine vats will brim over.
But don’t, dear friend, resent God’s discipline;
    don’t sulk under his loving correction.
It’s the child he loves that God corrects;
    a father’s delight is behind all this.

The Very Tree of Life

13-18 You’re blessed when you meet Lady Wisdom,
    when you make friends with Madame Insight.
She’s worth far more than money in the bank;
    her friendship is better than a big salary.
Her value exceeds all the trappings of wealth;
    nothing you could wish for holds a candle to her.
With one hand she gives long life,
    with the other she confers recognition.
Her manner is beautiful,
    her life wonderfully complete.
She’s the very Tree of Life to those who embrace her.
    Hold her tight—and be blessed!

19-20 With Lady Wisdom, God formed Earth;
    with Madame Insight, he raised Heaven.
They knew when to signal rivers and springs to the surface,
    and dew to descend from the night skies.

Never Walk Away

21-26 Dear friend, guard Clear Thinking and Common Sense with your life;
    don’t for a minute lose sight of them.
They’ll keep your soul alive and well,
    they’ll keep you fit and attractive.
You’ll travel safely,
    you’ll neither tire nor trip.
You’ll take afternoon naps without a worry,
    you’ll enjoy a good night’s sleep.
No need to panic over alarms or surprises,
    or predictions that doomsday’s just around the corner,
Because God will be right there with you;
    he’ll keep you safe and sound.

27-29 Never walk away from someone who deserves help;
    your hand is God’s hand for that person.
Don’t tell your neighbor “Maybe some other time”
    or “Try me tomorrow”
    when the money’s right there in your pocket.
Don’t figure ways of taking advantage of your neighbor
    when he’s sitting there trusting and unsuspecting.

30-32 Don’t walk around with a chip on your shoulder,
    always spoiling for a fight.
Don’t try to be like those who shoulder their way through life.
    Why be a bully?
“Why not?” you say. Because God can’t stand twisted souls.
    It’s the straightforward who get his respect.

33-35 God’s curse blights the house of the wicked,
    but he blesses the home of the righteous.
He gives proud skeptics a cold shoulder,
    but if you’re down on your luck, he’s right there to help.
Wise living gets rewarded with honor;
    stupid living gets the booby prize.


Your body will glow with health,
    your very bones will vibrate with life!
Honor God with everything you own;
    give him the first and the best.
Your barns will burst,
    your wine vats will brim over.
But don’t, dear friend, resent God’s discipline;
    don’t sulk under his loving correction.
It’s the child he loves that God corrects;
    a father’s delight is behind all this.

The Very Tree of Life

13-18 You’re blessed when you meet Lady Wisdom,
    when you make friends with Madame Insight.
She’s worth far more than money in the bank;
    her friendship is better than a big salary.
Her value exceeds all the trappings of wealth;
    nothing you could wish for holds a candle to her.
With one hand she gives long life,
    with the other she confers recognition.
Her manner is beautiful,
    her life wonderfully complete.
She’s the very Tree of Life to those who embrace her.
    Hold her tight—and be blessed!

19-20 With Lady Wisdom, God formed Earth;
    with Madame Insight, he raised Heaven.
They knew when to signal rivers and springs to the surface,
    and dew to descend from the night skies.

Never Walk Away

21-26 Dear friend, guard Clear Thinking and Common Sense with your life;
    don’t for a minute lose sight of them.
They’ll keep your soul alive and well,
    they’ll keep you fit and attractive.
You’ll travel safely,
    you’ll neither tire nor trip.
You’ll take afternoon naps without a worry,
    you’ll enjoy a good night’s sleep.
No need to panic over alarms or surprises,
    or predictions that doomsday’s just around the corner,
Because God will be right there with you;
    he’ll keep you safe and sound.

27-29 Never walk away from someone who deserves help;
    your hand is God’s hand for that person.
Don’t tell your neighbor “Maybe some other time”
    or “Try me tomorrow”
    when the money’s right there in your pocket.
Don’t figure ways of taking advantage of your neighbor
    when he’s sitting there trusting and unsuspecting.

30-32 Don’t walk around with a chip on your shoulder,
    always spoiling for a fight.
Don’t try to be like those who shoulder their way through life.
    Why be a bully?
“Why not?” you say. Because God can’t stand twisted souls.
    It’s the straightforward who get his respect.

33-35 God’s curse blights the house of the wicked,
    but he blesses the home of the righteous.
He gives proud skeptics a cold shoulder,
    but if you’re down on your luck, he’s right there to help.
Wise living gets rewarded with honor;
    stupid living gets the booby prize.

SIGNS

Signs are very helpful in life... in many ways. And when we fail to recognize or see signs that are trying to tell us something for our benefit, we often times experience the consequences of that in some way. 

For example. 

This week I headed to Toronto with two lovely friends to enjoy a night out of good food and baseball. First we headed out for dinner at Grand Electric, and then we proceeded to go to Junked Food Co. for their famous "Cookie Dough Cones". They happen to be on the same street just a kilometre or so a part. We still had time left on our parking pass, so I simply pulled into a parking space a little closer to our Cookie Dough Cones. We hopped out and excitedly ran in for our sugar fix. Being no more than 15 minutes, we ventured back to my car, and it was gone. 

It was one of those moments where you are in shock. Like what happened?! In the matter of 15 minutes my car totally disappears. How can that even happen?

You see, I had failed to see a sign a block away from my car, that in that particular section of the street, there was no parking before 7:00 PM. And if you did, it was an automatic tow. 

Sometimes in life, it seems like we are keeping things above water, "we have our car" and then the next minute, it has totally disappeared and we are left stranded. But all the while, there was a sign right in front of us that was communicating a message to help us avoid a problem, or in this case, a tow. 

What are the signs in your life trying to communicate something to you to help you? It's best to recognize those now, before you realize you're car has been towed. 

Ash 

Self praise is no praise

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I've got to start with this. My photo has nothing to do with the rest of my post.... I just love cookie dough and want to tell you about junked food co. in Toronto where you can get a full cookie dough cone. Now we can move on :P

Growing up my family was, well you could say... close. If you know me, you're probably chuckling because my family was and is perhaps oddly close. I'm 26 and talk to my parents and brother everyday twice a day and we live in three different provinces. Haha.  

Anyhow, growing up, my dad would always say, "self praise is no praise." And when I read 2 Corinthians 3 this morning, I was reminded of just that. Here's what Paul writes:  

"Are we beginning to praise ourselves again? Are we like others, who need to bring you letters of recommendation, or who ask you to write such letters on our behalf? Surely not! The only letter of recommendation we need is you yourselves. Your lives are a letter written in our hearts; everyone can read it and recognize our good work among you. Clearly, you are a letter from Christ... this "letter" is written not with pen and ink, but with the Spirit of the living God. It is carved not on tablets of stone, but on human hearts." 

The challenge here is this; Paul says that CLEARLY WE ARE "LETTERS FROM CHRIST" ... are we?  

Is my life clearly a letter of love from Christ to all those around me? That's my thought for the day, the week, and the rest of my life.  

Let's focus more on who we are BEING rather than what we are DOING to write the letter of our lives. And hey, the good doing always follows the good being.  

Ash  

bit and bridle

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Psalm 33:8-9

The Lord says, "I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you. Do not be like a senseless horse or mule that needs a bit and bridle to keep it under control." 

I read this verse this morning and thought, wow. How often in life are we the horse or mule, lagging behind in hesitation and unwillingness or jumping ahead with lack of wisdom and patience? 

When we tend to be the mule or the horse to an unhealthy degree, I think it comes back to a lack of trust.  

If we are unwilling to step out into what God is asking us to do... there is a lack of trust. We somehow don't trust that God has our back, that he will lead and provide, we somehow don't trust that God actually has our best in mind.  

When we are unwilling to stay, be still, and patient for he Lords timing and instead jump ahead.... there is a lack of trust.  Again, we'd rather trust in our best effort of "making something happen" than God's beautifully timed plan for our lives. 

The latter is often times me, in the KOLBE personality evaluation, I have a 9/10 QuickStart....  

I love what Brandon Richardson communicated this week at The Embassy. He said something to the effect of... when we try and make something happen on our own terms, that very thing will most likely end up being our biggest hurdle to what God actually wants to do.

 Its great to remind ourselves and have firm founded faith and hope in this: (as the psalmist writes...) 

The Lord says, "I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you."

Today, do you need to move to action in an area of your life, or perhaps be still?  

Ash